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Whatcha Reading Wednesday

If there’s one thing you should know about people from Asheville, it’s that we love our town.Wherever we go Asheville people love to talk about…Asheville.

If you ever met someone from my town I know that you’ve experienced this. Its’ not that we’re arrogant, it’s not that we want to make you jealous. It’s just that we love where we live.

That being said, pardon me, while I talk about….Asheville.

 

 

 

This week I’ve been reading a lot of great things about people in my hometown who are doing BIG things. So here is a rundown of my reading list:

 Zip lining Adventures Generate a million bucks
This canopy tour company got it’s big break just outside of Asheville.

BROO-body and haircare
A new venture that I heard about this week is making a splash in the shampoo and body wash industry. The secrete ingredient: craft beer made in Asheville.

Docica Magazine
A monthly online fashion magazine celebrating women of REAL beauty, with an Asheville flare.
Ladies, this magazine is a fun!

Corley May
Writer, social media, content manager my friend Corley May launched her new business website this week. She is a fantastic writer, and an amazing human being! You can also visit her blog here.

Of course not all news in Asheville makes us shout with excitement.
Sometimes companies come to Asheville and just don’t get it.  Case in point:

 850 employees of Asheville’s Grove Park Inn must reapply for jobs

What are you reading this week?

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A Question To Ask At Every Interview

Published on April 16, 2012, by in business, career, HR.

“Do you like your job?”

Before you take a job with any organization I challenge you to ask that questions of at least one person.

Two things will happen:

1. You will catch a lot of people off-guard.
2. You will get a reaction

…..and it might not be the reaction you expect.

The truth is people who are misable at their jobs, can’t keep it to themselves.
Not in the interview, and not on the job.

If the person who is interviewing/recruiting/selling you on the organization isn’t doing what they love, chances are you won’t be either.

Do what you love. It starts with the interview.

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What I’m “Good At”


Ever realize that friends, family, relatives, and random people on the street ask you for help on the same thing over and over again-
because they know you’re good at?

For Hubby Skinner  it’s computers/webdesign. He’s an expert and a go-to-guy for many of his friends when it comes to all things tech.

I never really thought I had a  gift that people recognized. Or that even I recognized. I like people, I like business, but I never thought I had that “one thing”.

 

I took a few minutes to think back over the past few years and I started to see certain themes emerge, and that’s when it hit me…

I love helping people find/create meaningful work. Every time a friend or family member was experiencing a career transition I was the go-to-girl. I have  resumes documents on my computer for almost every member of my family. I love coaching friends on potential interview questions.

I’m sure some of this had to do with my background in HR but I also really enjoy seeing people succeed in doing what they love.

So, I’m embracing my “talent” and over the next few weeks I’m going to start a series of blog posts on finding, building, and creating a career that you love. Hope you’ll join me.

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Caine’s Arcade

Published on April 15, 2012, by in Uncategorized.

Caine reminds us all what it’s like to believe.

If you haven’t already, watch this clip. It’s worth your time.

Dad: “Hey Caine, can we go home early today, we’ve got no customers”
Caine: “No.”

Caine never lost sights of the dream.
Caine knew he had something to offer.
Caine never gave up.

 

 

 

 

Don’t stop now. Your flash mob of customers could be waiting around the next corner.

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Whatcha Reading Wednesday

Normally
I like to read leadership/business books. It’s what I gravitate towards and where I feel most inspired. I had a co-work last week send me an article saying “I know you’re a leadership junkie like me so you will enjoy this.” And I do.

But recently I have been consumed with a story about a way of living that is foreign to most people. It is the story of giving up everything to simply love people. After all, at the core of everything, life comes down to how well we loved.

The book I’m reading is called “Kisses From Katie”. It’s the story of a 19 year-old girl who gives up everything to live with a group of people in Africa who have captured her heart. She gets deeply involved with the lives of the people in her Ugandan village. She “hurts with the hurting” a takes on the burdens of the orphaned and afflicted. Mid-way through the book she has adopted 9 abandoned and unloved children, and eventually becomes a “mommy” to a total of 14 girls, whom she describes individually as beautiful and inspiring.

It’s not Katie’s status or what she has accomplished that causes her story to be so captivating, but because she had the courage to love, no matter what it cost.
Every time I pick up this book I am inspired to live beyond myself. To live for a purpose. And to live for people.

It’s life. On purpose.

To read more of Katie’s story you can follow her blog here
To read more about her non-profit you can go here

Have you read any great stories lately? What inspired you?

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Obedience School

Published on April 9, 2012, by in attitude, leadership.

 

My sister has done an amazing job with her dog.

He is the sweetest most loving little guy in the entire world and the whole entire family adores him. This Saturday I was on care-duty for Tebow the dog, which basically just me going over and taking him for a quick walk for bathroom time and to get his wiggles out.

I have forgotten that this once small Labradoodle puppy, was not so much a puppy any more. I looked away for half a second and almost fell flat on my rear when he bolted for a nearby stick.

The first 15 minutes of our walk was a battle. I was ignored while Tebow drug me down the road and chased anything that looked interesting.

Then, I remembered the Dog Whisper episodes (which I love!) where Cesar Millan tells his audience that he “rehabilitates dogs, and trains people”.  I went through the checklist of everything I could remember from Dog Whisper and realized I was doing everything completely wrong. So I changed. I didn’t change what I was doing really. We were still walking, but I allowed myself to be in control to be “in the moment”. As I transformed, so did Tebow.

Here are a few things that I learned about people, dogs, leadership on my walk:

1. Keep your expectations consistent. Don’t run one minute and expect to snail walk the next.
2. Be in control. No one likes to follow a scaredy cat (literally).
3. Make eye contact. It builds trust and confidence.
4. In moments of stress (lawn mowers, children, other dogs) accept the circumstances, but find your own peace.
5. Work together. Everything is a lot more enjoyable when you aren’t pulling in two different directions.

Have you ever had a “Dog Whisper” moment? Sometimes animals can be great teachers

I  really love Cesar Millan’s story. It’s here if you’re interested.
(Thanks Jeff Pennypacker for sharing this link)

 

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It’s New!

Published on April 8, 2012, by in Uncategorized.

You made it! Thanks for joining me over at my new blog on word press.

I’m really excited about my new platform and I’m hoping a fresh start on the blog will inspire some new posts.
I have a brand new URL (all my own!) so be sure to update all your links! I’m here for the rest of the journey.

Speaking for a fresh start, we just got back from our Florida vacation, and let me tell you nothing is more inspiring than a week of adventures! We managed to pack every single Floridian activity into one week: sunshine, theme parks, mini golf, beaches, roller skating, sunburns, boat rides, ice cold AC and lots of friends and family. We got back home and still had an entire weekend to celebrate my birthday. It was GREAT!

Hope you’ve had a great Easter! See you down the road.

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The Mountain Top

Saturday we took a drive to the top of our mountains. I feel like the mountains are kind of part of the family around here. They are always watching over us. Whether we’re driving to work or playing outside the mountains are here. Usually I forget about the mountains or take them for granted, but as soon as I find myself on flatter land I realize, ”something is missing from this landscape”.

Looking down from the mountains the world seems smaller, problems seem less important, and stress blows away like the clouds.

These are my mountains. They’ll always be home.

 

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So close to the clouds it feels like you can jump up and grab them!

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A little hike!

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We calibrated the location of our house.
On the picture to the left, we’re at the base of the mountain on the left.

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I didn’t even notice the crazy graffiti until after I took the pictures, kind of ironic.

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Update

Published on January 23, 2012, by in Uncategorized.

 

I’m reading this book:

I’m taking a graduate class from this school:

My OneWord365 is:

Character

I like this quote:

I’m looking forward to visiting:

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It’s a New Year!

No your eyes aren’t playing tricks on you, after a nearly two months hiatus—I’m back!

The holidays are over and although we were “glad to see them come” we were equally “glad to see them go” (borrowed quote from my Papa, who these same sentiments to describe his feelings about visits from relatives).
At the close of the year Matthew and I had lots to reflect on. It wasn’t that this year was necessarily a bad year, in fact, we had a pretty great year (bought a house, ran a half marathon, promotions, etc.). What made 2011 so difficult was that so many people around us were in the midst of life-changing obstacles. In most cases there was nothing we could do to change the situation, but it didn’t stop us from wishing things were different. At the same time we have had to learned that difficult situations are sometimes the best (and only) teachers.

I think I am still processing a lot of the lessons of 2011. But one thing I didn’t have to process at all was that I was relieved to have the opportunity for a new start. Not just for myself, but for everyone I know that wished 2011 would have turned out a little (or a lot) differently.
As for resolutions. I have one.

1. I want more moments like this.

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On another non-resolution (but slightly related) note I want to identify one word to define my year. I got the idea from this site OneWord365 and I think it’s a great.

I need some time to think about what my word will be, but I will be sure to update as soon as I have it. See, I already have a topic for my next post, so I’ll definitely be back!

Hasta luego.

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